Sunday, September 18, 2011

Ok class, please turn in your homework....

Well, it's time to report in on how well you accomplished Task #1 this week - Consoling Someone.  As for me, I would say I failed.  Mark a big old F on this week's assignment for me. This card will have to go back in the pile and be picked out another week on my calendar.  Not that I didn't try - and in fact, I suppose there's an outside chance that someone somewhere was helped by something I did.  But more often this week, I found myself being the consolee - numerous times throughout the week....even ending up sobbing on the shoulder of a co-volunteer at Tides.  And a thought struck me this week that in our efforts to console someone else, we may not always be able to measure the outcome of this assignment.  We may have impacted a life without knowing it.  Or as in my case this week, sometimes our efforts are misconstrued as having deleterious intent - and for that there seems to be no self-consolation.  So I would love to hear how you fared - comment here if blogspot will stop being temperamental and allow that, or drop me a line on Facebook or in an email......and stay tuned for the coming week's assignment - to be posted tomorrow. 

3 comments:

  1. can't wait to mess up another assignment.

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  2. I consoled a few Moms sending their child off to surgery; consoled many children waking up from anesthesia who wanted their Mommies; consoled a co-worker who feels bullied by another co-worker...just another day at the office, but always rewarding.

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  3. Thought I'd not be participating (read failing) because I don't get to do much consoling in my line of work (engineer). Forgot about my role as father. We ended up consoling our daughter while at PSU parent's weekend. She is struggling with her first English paper. She's a good writer but an encounter with a teacher in high school has left her paralyzed every time she has to write this kind of paper. She put on a brave face until Saturday night as we were walking along College Avenue. She just broke down. We had to step into a side alley to administer hugs and words of encouragement.
    I'll take a B- as my wife does the better consoling.

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